Ellarinthius "Retha" Rainey



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Ellarinthius "Retha" Rainey

December 25, 1928 ~ June 3, 2023 (age 94)

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The Life of Grandma Retha

Grandma Retha was born on December 25th, 1928 in Buffalo, NY to the late Nathaniel “Ned” and Daisy Rainey. She passed away peacefully on June 3rd, 2023 surrounded by her loved ones.

Grandma Retha spent her 94 wonderful years spreading love, joy, sarcasm, and sass to any and all around her. Her favorite pastimes included watching sports, doing crossword puzzles, dancing (swingin’ out), cooking, and most importantly laughing her @#$ off.

At the age of 20, Grandma Retha married John McGhee and from this union had Duane “Butch”(son), Michael(son), and Pamela(daughter). In addition, she loved and raised 3 bonus children Patricia(daughter), Stephen(son), and Timothy(son).

Shortly after their union, she relocated to Newark, NJ where she worked in pharmaceuticals for several years, eventually retiring from Dobbs International Service.

Grandma Retha is survived by her brothers Earl and Ned Rainey, loving children Michael Rainey and Pamela Rainey-Fort, 16 grandchildren, 43 great grands, 29 great-great grands, and a host of nieces and nephews. Grandma Retha was predeceased by her siblings: Odell, Earnest, Lawrence, Sherman, Nathaniel, Richard, Ruth, Shirley, her son Duane Rainey, 2 grandchildren, and 2 great grands.

A memorial service will be held at 2:00 pm on Monday, June 12, 2023, at Triad Cremation & Funeral Service, 2110 Servomation Road, Greensboro, NC 27407.



Services

Memorial Service

Monday, June 12, 2023
2:00 PM
Triad Cremation and Funeral Service (Greensboro) Directions
Greensboro,



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  • June 11, 2023
    Carolyn Rainey says:
    I will truly miss you aunt Retha. Love your niece Carolyn Annette Rainey.??

  • June 26, 2023
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  • June 13, 2023
    Charles Williams (Scoob) says:
    My Deepest Condolences to the Family (Family….??). May God comfort you all at this time of need. There is so much to be said, yet not enough about this beautiful soul that God allowed us to borrow for a generous amount of time, but yet too short to us. I know this is hard for you all, but if when you fall into your deepest moments of sorrow, take a minute and reflect on past memories of her and it’s guaranteed you will find yourself smiling with joy (Fun times) and grateful to be apart of them. Rest up Mrs. Rainey you deserve it. Job Well Done !

  • June 12, 2023
    Duana Rainey says:
    Grandma, miss and love you very much. Tell daddy I miss and love him dearly, and wish him a Happy Birthday tomorrow from myself, Chris and Travis.Aunt Pam and Uncle Mike, thank you both for ALWAYS showing what true strength and real love looks and feels like. Love you so very much.

  • June 12, 2023
    Duana Rainey says:
    Grandma, we miss and love you very much. Tell daddy I miss and love him dearly and wish him a Happy Birthday tomorrow from myself, Chris and Travis.Love you Uncle Mike and Aunt Pam. Thank you both for ALWAYS showing us what true strength and real love looks and feels like.

  • June 12, 2023
    Felicia Coleman says:
    Michael, so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. Praying that God gives you and your family comfort at this time. The love and care that you provided for your mom was priceless. I admired the bond you had with your mom and how you shared it with us in caregiver’s support group.????

  • June 12, 2023
    Janet Parhams says:
    Dear Pam, Michael and family please accept my condolences on the passing of mother/loved one. Her physical presence will truly be missed but she lives on in your hearts. May God continue to comfort you at this time of bereavement.Sending my love and hugs.

  • June 12, 2023
    Yvonne Vickers says:
    My Deepest Condolences to the Family…I’ll miss Her and Her Since of Humor…She was such a Beautiful Lovely Lady…Rest in Peace

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  • June 11, 2023
    Carolyn Rainey says:
    I will truly miss you aunt Retha. Love your niece Carolyn Annette Rainey.??

  • June 10, 2023
    Idressa Calland says:
    Condolences sent to the family. Mrs. Rainey was always with a smile and never without words. May she Rest in Peace.

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  • June 08, 2023
    Siddeeqah Rowe says:
    Simma Down Nah!!!Grama welcomed me with open arms when we met and she has been my grandma ever since..Always in our hearts and never forgotten- The Rowe family

  • June 08, 2023
    John Ross says:
    So many great times and memories from our Goodwin Ave days. She brought joy,, laughter and love to us from our wonder years , our crazy teenage years and continued into adulthood.. I will miss her and she will forever be in my heart ????.. Love You " Shorty ". Rest In Peace . John Ross

  • June 08, 2023
    Shelly says:
    There are no words to express my Heartfelt Condolences. Granny… aka Grandma Rainey… aka Ms. Rainey. Your New Jersey Family Loves you. Take your rest My Dearest til we meet again!! ???????????????????????